For some women, masturbation is not only recreation, it's an act that helps them learn what they like sexually, so that they can have more fun with a partner.
But even for women who feel comfortable masturbating, sex toys can seem intimidating or even "dirty."
And finally, there are the ladies who would tell you you'd have to pry their Rabbit Pearls or Hitachi Magic Wands out of their cold, dead hands. Where are you on this continuum — do you use sex toys?
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Oh my god that's hilarious. Please please please keep that anonymous comment up.
Anyways... strangely enough, I don't, although my boyfriend and I have a good amount of *ahem* gear.. but toys? Like vibrators? I haven't tried 'em. Too foreign even for my relatively kinky tastes. But who knows, hmm. Might have a go at the more realistic variety. I don't think I could do ones that look like glass or candy.
Which, by the by, has anyone heard of this kit that will make a mold of your guys' package so you can make a dildo out of it? Seriously! That I want.
1Not right now, but not because I'm opposed to the idea.
Sounds like a fun project, KadBunny.
2have in the past, not the same as the real thing
3Sometimes when hubby is away for work or sometimes I use them and let him watch, he seems to like that. I do prefer him than the toys, but its fun to get him going when he watches me.
4Rarely.
5i use them for my own personal pleasure when the boy isnt home...but we havent used sex toys together in a while. We used to a lot in the beginning. Now we have this thing called "THe Wedge" its awesome. It is a wedge shaped piece of foam covered in velvet and its supposed to enhance different sexual positions. Its great!!
6I use them, they're great. Even better is when I allow him to use them on me. That really adds to the thrill for us both.
7I used them when my husband was overseas for 16 months. Don't use them now.
8I'd never had anything until I met my latest guy. He suggested a clit vibrator for use during sex since I can't climax through intercourse alone.
I cannot believe I waited this long.
9Regularly! Sometimes solo, sometimes shared with a lover. I also own a waterproof one for bathtime fun!
10I do.
11I rather have my bf but when hes out of town and feel frisky I pull my toys out and enjoy my time alone. Its fun if you know what you like and how to reach an O.
I love toys.
I actually own 3 or 4 different toys... but I only really like one of them... The Original Jack Rabbit. At first it was intimidating but then I got to where I really enjoyed it. Hubby and I sometimes drag them out and play together but mostly I play by myself when hubby has to work overnight or is out of town.
12of course. like Susan Crain Bakos teaches us - every woman should have a wardrobe of vibes my boy minds a bit, he always asks me why i couldn't wait for him to come home? but i like it, i did it before him and will do it after. but then I just offer to use it together or on him and he warms up to the idea of my rabbit
13I do. It's fun.
14I just recently got a vibrator and it is sooooo much better than before haha! My ex boyfriend was nervous that it would replace him, but real sex is obviously better
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