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22 Fall Date Ideas

Pack up your swimsuits, and break out your scarves.

Pack up your swimsuits, and break out your scarves. Fall is officially here! Enjoying the crisp Autumn air with a loved one is sure to warm your heart, whether he's a Summer fling who turned into the real thing or a longtime love you're planning an annual Halloween couple's costume with. And while the days are getting shorter, there's still time to make the most of the great outdoors before Winter comes. With the help of photo-sharing site Instagram, we present inspiration for romantic Autumn outings.

women

300 Sandwiches For an Engagement Ring: Sexist or Cute?

If your significant other complimented your kitchen prowess with the exclamation, "Honey, you're 300 sandwiches away from an engagement ring!", would you find it endearing?

If your significant other complimented your kitchen prowess with the exclamation, "Honey, you're 300 sandwiches away from an engagement ring!", would you find it endearing? Or would you pack your bags? When her boyfriend uttered those exact words to her, Page Six senior reporter Stephanie Smith described it as a "declaration of how much he loved me" in her New York Post profile. She then proceeded to create a blog documenting her 300-sandwich quest to a proposal. She explained that she needed cook to prove she was "wife material," because "to him, sandwiches are like kisses or hugs. Or sex."

Personally, I find the arrangement a bit . . . antiquated and one-sided, to put it lightly. Especially with exchanges like this:

Each morning, he would ask, "Honey, how long you have been awake?"
"About 15 minutes," I'd reply.
"You've been up for 15 minutes, and you haven't made me a sandwich?"

The Star Wars-obsessed boyfriend in question, Eric Schulte, also offers some advice from his '50s-era housewife handbook: "You women read all these magazines to get advice on how to keep a man, and it's so easy. We're not complex. Just do something nice for us. Like make a sandwich."

You know where I stand, but what do you think about earning your happily ever after with 300 sandwiches? Is the way to a man's heart through his stomach?

relationships

Say, "I Love You," Without Really Saying It

Sometimes you just don't want to say, "I love you," even if that's how you really feel.
Say, "I Love You," Without Really Saying It

Sometimes you just don't want to say, "I love you," even if that's how you really feel. Maybe you just started dating and don't want to scare him off, or maybe you've been with her for five years and are tired of using the same ol' phrase. No matter the reason, you can still express your feelings with greeting cards that are sweet and simple. Whether you like, really like, or love someone, you'll find the perfect message in this roundup!

Music

What Your Taste in Music Says About You on a Date

We're happy to present this excerpt from one of our favorite sites, HowAboutWe.

We're happy to present this excerpt from one of our favorite sites, HowAboutWe. You might just have to rethink your answer to one of dating's most common questions.

It's one of the quintessential (and sometimes dreaded) first date questions: What kind of music are you into?

There's a reason that most people tend to side-step this question with a deft, "A little bit of everything." It's because your taste in music reveals a lot about you to potential partners.

(Read part 2 of this list here.)

Here’s the breakdown:

Bruce Springsteen: You're a monster in the sack.

Rod Stewart: You're gross.

David Bowie: You're selective, but slutty.

Jay Z: You don’t take any sh*t. Or at least you know that you're not supposed to.

Beastie Boys: You believe that loyalty is rewarded.

Arcade Fire: You spend the first third of a relationship in a romantic frenzy and the last two trying to justify it.

The Ramones: Unless you’re over 40, you’re trying to be cool.

Rush: You're a man. And a nerdy one at that.

Led Zeppelin: If you're a woman, you're hot. If you're a guy, you're average.

AC/DC: If you're a woman, you're the kind of person who lets a guy move in with you after three dates because he's temporarily homeless. If you're a guy, you're temporarily homeless.

My Chemical Romance: You’re not so much looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend as someone to share a “f*ckyeahsuperheroeskissing” Tumblr with.

The Pixies: Relax. You're cool.

Talking Heads: You're a good person.

Stevie Wonder: You're husband/wife material.

For more revelations, head to HowAboutWe: What Your Taste in Music Says About You on a Date

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Halloween

The Scariest Real-Life Halloween Nightmares

Halloween is one of those occasions that can go so very right or so very wrong.
The Scariest Real-Life Halloween Nightmares

Halloween is one of those occasions that can go so very right or so very wrong. While we all hope to win best costume or show up to work hangover-free, one wrong turn and the night can end in a real-life nightmare. And when you're single, that's even truer. There's the potential of running into your ex, having the lamest sexy costume ever, or throwing a party where nobody shows. But the good news is you can always grab the closest mask and hide behind it. Ahead, check out the worst-case scenarios (in GIFs!) that we wouldn't wish on our worst enemy.

Dating

5 Beer Date Ideas For Hop-py Couples

Get your stretch pants ready because Oktoberfest is going strong, and there's only one way to celebrate.

Get your stretch pants ready because Oktoberfest is going strong, and there's only one way to celebrate. Take advantage of this special time by grabbing your best guy or gal and sipping your way through all the festivities with these date ideas. Bonding over beer? Sounds like the perfect time.

Visit a Beer Garden

Believe it or not, many beer gardens are really cute. Full of greenery and even waterfalls, they're a great setting for an afternoon relaxing with your honey.

Go Beer Tasting

There's nothing like discovering new things with your partner, and beer is no exception. Find a bar or restaurant that lets you taste different kinds, and take a few bottles of your favorite home to cheers with later.

Attend a Beer Festival

'Tis the season for beer festivals galore. Find one in your city, don your best lederhosen or dirndls, and tell yourselves you're at the real Oktoberfest in Munich. Do so before it's too late!

Brew Your Own Beer

Take on the challenge together of making your own brew. It can take up to a few weeks, but all the fermenting and bottling will be worth the pay off at the end. Plus, you'll have a good story to tell all your friends.

Tour a Brewery

Getting the inside scoop on where your favorite beer comes from is definitely a date well spent. Pick up some tips for your own brewing, and share a pint once it's over. Cheers!

TV

Take a Love Cue From the Emmy-Nominated Shows

Sure, Don Draper isn't the best person to take love advice from.
Take a Love Cue From the Emmy-Nominated Shows

Sure, Don Draper isn't the best person to take love advice from. But he certainly has some ideas for the perfect date. Find out how Mad Men, 30 Rock, and all the other comedies and dramas nominated for best series Emmys are teaching us how to step our dating game up with inspiration for the perfect night out (or in). And while you're at it, don't forget to fill out our fun Emmy ballot for a chance to win big!

relationships

5 Ways to Meet Someone

It's Singles Week, so why not spruce up your dating approach?

It's Singles Week, so why not spruce up your dating approach? From new hobbies to a fresh, self-loving attitude, a little bit of change can go a long way — both for your confidence and for your dating habits. Love is in the air this Fall, so boost your odds of meeting someone by following these five simple tips:

  1. Sign up for a class. You're not going to meet someone if you're sitting around all day, so take the initiative and join a class of some kind. Whether it's a fitness class or a cooking workshop, you're bound to meet new people — and the more people you know, the more likely it is that you'll find a connection, so boost your odds by getting out there.
  2. Stick to smaller groups. A giant crowd of females can be more than a little intimidating, so ease up on the estrogen and go out with just a few close pals instead. A smaller group means less pressure, making it much easier for guys to approach you.
  3. Host a get-together. Take matters into your own hands by throwing a casual party for your pals. Encourage them to bring other friends to help you expand your social circle. Keep things low-key — think wine and games, not extra loud dance music — to promote plenty of conversation.
  4. Do your own thing. When you're busy and fulfilled, your best self is able to shine through, so pack your planner with whatever it is that makes you feel happiest. Be sure to regularly pencil in some "me time" to lift your spirits and stay satisfied.
  5. Prioritize your social life. Love a good cozy night in? It's great to rest every once in a while, but you definitely need to free up some time for a few nights out, too. Putting yourself out there and penciling in a few fun activities each week will improve your mood and help you feel like you're on the right track.
online dating

What a Guy Thinks of Your Tinder Profile Pic

A picture is worth a thousand "nopes," at least on Tinder.
What a Guy Thinks of Your Tinder Profile Pic

A picture is worth a thousand "nopes," at least on Tinder. Basically an online-dating version of Hot or Not, the app asks users to rate potential dates with a "like" or a "nope." After extensive research into the do and don'ts of Tinder for guys, I turned to my Tinder buddy old friend Trey Morgan to research the best and the worst of women's profile pics. No surprise: the women are better at photo selection than the dudes, but we still found plenty of unfortunate choices. Single ladies, listen up: here's what your profile photo says about you.

online dating

Looking For Love? There's an App For That

It seems like every day there's a new form of online dating.
Looking For Love? There's an App For That

It seems like every day there's a new form of online dating. No matter what type of relationship you're looking for — from the "forever" kind to the "friends with benefits" kind — there's an app for that! I've been hearing my girlfriends discuss their wins and losses with a variety of online-dating phone apps, and now I want to hear from you. So this Singles Week, I'm breaking down the newest means of tech-based courtship; weigh in on whether you've had good or back luck with them.